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Writer's pictureLana Stanley

WHEN YOU DREAM OF THE SAME PERSON

Dreams are fantastic. They give us so much information and they are great entertainment while we sleep.



There are many kinds of dreams. These range from basic all the way to lucid dreams.


Some have a special message, while others are just the fragments of your thoughts that you see during your sleep.


Dreaming is the way we sort through our thoughts, familiar people pop up especially if we are hiding the truth from ourselves.


There’s a possibility that you dream about the same person again and again.



What Is The Feeling In The Dream?


You wake up and remember the same scene in your head with them. Or the narrative will change dramatically from dream to dream.


The feeling of the dream or narrative is your best clue at working out why you keep dreaming of them.


Usually though if there is a message from them, the same scene will play until you understand the meaning.


If the feeling of the dream about them keeps changing, then usually the dream is about you, but showing the meaning to you through them.


The interval between these dreams could be as short as a single day. Dreaming of the same person could be neglected for a day or two.


But, if you see the same person, again and again, more than twice or thrice, then it is not possible to ignore it.



Dreaming of The Same Person


Dreaming of the same person could mean many things or could mean nothing. If we see things scientifically, dreams are just random electrical brain impulses.


They are the random images of the thoughts that you had the whole day.


But we don’t see things like that, do we?


From a spiritual perspective, having dreams about the same person means your souls are connecting.


Only you know if you are the one thinking of them often or if it is them thinking of you and showing up in your dreams.


If you see the same person every night, it could mean that you are thinking about the same person a lot.


Or you have things you wished you could have said, but missed your chance. Often windows between people shut and the moment is lost forever.



The person may be lost to you for good and you miss the good times, or you just wish you had the chance to stand up to them.


That person might be your crush, your lover, your relative, your favorite celebrity, or even your enemy.


Whatever they are to you, you need to find resolve within yourself, if not then just enjoy the dream.


If the energy between you is bad and the dream feels more like a nightmare then you need to work on that resolve independently.


This is easier said than done. I have been there myself, dreaming about an old friend when I know it is not me, but them looking for me.


It was especially hard because no one wants to be found by a narcissist. I worked on strengthening myself and now they hardly ever show up.


And when they do, I just ask them to leave, it is my dream after all and I love dreaming.


So What Is The Reason For The Dream?



The reason could be that you think about the person before going to sleep especially and that’s why you see them in the dream.


Also, the other reason for seeing them is that you are concerned or worried about them.


Most times you dream about someone because of unfinished business.


You can fill in your own gaps here, it could be a friend you fell out with, partner things ended badly or abruptly with, and so on.


Your superconscious is in control of you, and dreaming is a good way to access it.

However, many psychologists believe that dreams have some meaning. They indicate things mysteriously.


Spiritual leaders also have the same belief, which shows many times science and spirituality are parallel to each other.


Dreaming of the same person could indicate something. Your unconscious mind creates the dream, and it knows more than you do.

There are lots of possibilities for seeing the same person over and over again.


Your Mind is Making You See Them Intentionally



It usually happens when you are dreaming about the person who is not with you anymore, or you have been fought with.


You don’t want to think about them at all, and during the day, you achieve that goal, but at night, your mind plays a trick on you and makes you see them on purpose.


For instance, if you see your ex a lot, it could mean that your mind wants you to engage in a romantic relationship again.


Or if you are seeing your mother, whom you don’t talk to anymore, your mind is reminding you that she is important and you should not neglect her.


Your mind knows what you exactly want more than you do, and it gives you hints through dreams.


Seeing A Stranger Is Different than Seeing Your Lover



If you are seeing the same stranger again and again, what actually matters is how you are treating the stranger.


If the situation is dangerous, then you should be on your high alert during the day.


It could mean that you have some enemy who wants to harm you. Or the complete opposite, but that is up to you and how the dream makes you feel when you wake up.


It is not unusual that a surrogate stranger will appear to you, but usually, it is a part of yourself that you are choosing to ignore.


If the relationship with the stranger is good, it could mean that your life is soon getting some pleasant surprise.


Distinguishing the common dream from the one that has a message is not easy.


But as you keep track of your dreams by writing them down to start with, the process becomes easier over time.


You should keep a keen eye on every detail to decipher the message you have received from your unconscious mind.


Dreaming of the same person could mean something significant but your conscious mind should also be wise enough to know the real meaning.

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